Simple Steps To Femininity

There are only a few steps out there to get you closer to your femininity. Many of them, if not all, I have already mentioned before. This is a brief compilation so that you can always have a cheat sheet handy.

Take a look at these steps and see if maybe you are missing some of them.

Relax

By relax, I mean both physically and emotionally. When we are relaxed, everything in life goes smoother and gets resolved by itself. Relaxed woman trusts easier the whole universe, she is more open to empathy and can feel herself and others deeper. When we are tensed, we stop the free energy flow and restrict it. This in turn stops all the events from occurring in our life. We try to control everything and everyone, and do not feel our true desires anymore.

How to: When you are at work, take a moment to stop and scan your body. Where do you feel the most tension? Whether it is your forehead or stomach or maybe upper back, inhale deeply and let it all go. Stretch and smile. Tell yourself: “Everything is going to be good!”. Do that as often as you need.

Slow Down

When you rush, you loose connection with your own self and stop being present, in here and now. Because of that you become more harsh and aggressive. When you slow down, you become a different person. Your movements get slower and smoother, you live every single moment to the fullest and can feel yourself better.

How to: To slow down, simply start doing everything slowly and mindfully – eating, walking, talking. Try to focus on your sensations: how does it feel when you walk and you feel the air touching your skin? How does it feel when you speak and your voice comes out from the inside of you? Try to be in every moment and you’ll soon see you can do much more if you savor each moment with joy and pleasure.

Nourish Yourself with Energy

It is very important for a woman to nourish herself energetically. A woman full of energy is like a sun that shines on everything and everyone around her, and warm it all up. When a woman is depleted, she always tries to get an energy from other people, she is unhappy and irritated most of the time.

How to: Surround yourself with everything that uplifts you, makes you smile and gives you energy. Listen to your favorite music more often. Visit places that brings you joy. Do things that gives you pleasure. Create, dance, sing.

Shift from Head to Body

When a woman perceives everything only using her head, analyzing everything all the time, she becomes physically and emotionally exhausted and tensed. She also becomes more critical and judgmental about everything. Using the thinking process is more beneficial for men since it gives them energy and empowers them. It is much more important for a woman to feel and sense everything instead. When she focuses on how she feels instead of what she thinks, she immediately relaxes, slows down and becomes happier.

How to: Feel your body right now. Shift the focus from your head to your body, stop going through the internal dialogues, trying to plan what and when you will do. Just breathe and feel. This is how the true sensuality starts.

Trust the Universe

This is the step that a woman needs to do before she can start entrusting herself entirely to her man. The Universe represent male polarity in woman’s life, and if there is no physical man beside her, the Universe always takes care of her. And once she completely trusts the Universe, she will be able to trust men too.

How to: Realize that the whole Universe wishes only the best to you, loves you and takes care of you all the time. The easiest way to do it is to write down all the events that have already happened to you when you did not know why they were happening. And then trace how all of them got together in one big meaningful puzzle that eventually brought you to the happy ending.

Forgive Everyone

Feeling of hurt is the biggest obstacle to femininity. A woman who feels hurt and holds grudges will always be very self-conscious about everything, heavy in the energy and will react on anything based on her past negative experience, instead of mindfully responding. When that happens, it is hard to open the heart and start trusting someone who is near and experience true love. This is why it is extremely important to forgive everyone and cleanse yourself from all hurtful feelings and heal your wounds.

How to: Write letters to anyone who has ever hurt you. Write down all that you feel, meditate on that. This will help you let it all go easier.

Reject the Criticism

A woman who criticizes cannot inspire anyone, including her man, and she will always stay unsatisfied. Instead, try to see the good in everything and find something positive in every situation.

How to: Stop criticizing yourself and your life. Do not participate in conversation when critic is involved. When someone criticizes you, try to find five positive things about you instead. Then they will become even stronger the more you do that.

Be Grateful

When a woman is grateful for everything in her life she fills herself with love, light and energy. This is when the heart opens up. A woman like this values everything she already has in her life and because of that she receives even more.

How to: Write down what you are grateful for every day. It can be anything as simple as the sunshine outside or maybe your cup of tea. Being grateful is the key to our happiness and fulfillment.

When you follow these simple steps, they will lead you straight to your feminine sacred essence. This opens up our wisdom, acceptance and deep constant happiness and joy of being a woman.

Have a blissful day!

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